butt hurt

so I'm kind of disappointed... Since first grade I've known my Samantha. and her familia. and I love them to pieces. but lately, her mother is so consumed in her sisters boyfriend that she's lost sight of reality. she's already planning in her head her daughters wedding... and nothing Samantha does is right. b/c her bf isn't jimmy means that she's satanic or w/e but now it's affecting my relationship with Sam's mom. here's why. since 1st grade I've been part of the family. If I was over at their house I went wherever they did. they told me I was part of the family. but today, I heard her ask Samantha to tell me to go home at 5 cuz their having a family dinner at chili's. I guess I'm not family anymore and Jimmy who's been around for like 6 months is... Its not that I wanted a free dinner it's that they made me feel like I'm not family any longer... Idk why I am so upset about it but it really hurt my feelings... and Samantha was totally irritated cuz we're tired of Jimmy and Jac getting their way and Samantha has become the red headed step child that does everything wrong. I'm tired of it. Samantha is a good person and her relationships are her business and just because she's not dating Jimmy doesn't make her a bad person. and her friends shouldn't be treated any less that Jimmy does. especially since, I've been around this family for years! ugh I just needed to vent. I'm butt hurt